Operation
Freedom Bird………a journey to find things lost
Loss is the experience
in which we’ve lost something significant or someone is taken
away. Each Vietnam combat veteran has had these significant losses.
Human relationships in Vietnam were lost in several ways.
1. a tour of duty ended
2. a change of orders meant a change of location and often of friends
3. a wounded friend left for extended treatment
4. and death brought the final loss to many
Other losses occurred
in the Vietnam combat experience. The innocence lost will never
be regained or even relieved at a slower, more easily accepted pace.
Vietnam vets grew old too fast and too soon. The discovery of youth
was lost in the horror of repeated deaths and the constant struggle
for survival.
The loss of faith and
ideals accompanied the loss of innocence. The valor, the wounds,
and the deaths appeared meaningless in the struggle of conflicting
forces, most of which were not on the battlefield.
The losses inflicted
pain and sorrow that couldn’t be forgotten when the vets returned
home. Because crying on the battlefield was an extreme liability
and a threat to survival, the vets never grieved. Grieving was impossible
in battle, so reactions to losses became bottled up and impacted.
Alcohol and drugs often
became easy buffers for emotional pain. Escapes into the woods or
away from responsibility did not leave the hurt behind. They only
created new, self-inflicted losses that increased the need for healthy
grief.
OPERATION FREEDOM BIRD
offers an opportunity for Vietnam veterans to process unresolved
grief and loss in a healing and supportive atmosphere. The men and
women veterans selected have prepared themselves for this healing
journey by previous counseling for Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
at Vet Centers across Arizona. The trip to the Vietnam memorial,
“The Wall,” accompanied by Vet Center counselors, offers
each a chance to share their experiences, confront their feelings,
pay tribute to their fallen comrades and seek closure to their own
emotional war wounds.
Dr. John Storie, Psy.D.
Clinical Psychologist
Vietnam Vetran
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